I would suggest that if you can never initiate, then that’s a sign that you’re not able to calibrate yourself in a dating or relationship situation. It might sound counterintuitive at first, but you really have no choice if you want your relationship or marriage to last. Additionally, your behavior may turn other women off, making finding someone genuinely interested in you more difficult. So, if he feels like he has to move away from you or spend less time with you because of your pestering or complaining, it’ll be even harder for him to feel close to you again. Interestingly enough, commitment tests usually only show up when a woman begins to feel that your loyalty to her is threatened.

This makes a lot of sense when you think about it – after all, if you want something, you have to go after it, right? My point is this: A lot of men seem to have forgotten how to make a genuine effort when it comes to dating, because us ladies are making all the effort for them.Women may be uninterested in you for this reason, and even if you chase them until the point where they agree to be with you, you may struggle to maintain her romantic interest.

But part of being an empowered woman is knowing your heart, your time, and your company is worth being wooed and pursued.

You may break it once or twice, but after you see the damage it causes you, you will stick to the rule in the future. You might even start thinking that you are not worthy of his attention to begin with but this isn’t true and never will be.